Dating a married men

28-Aug-2016 05:28

When you enter into a relationship with married men, inevitably you step into a world that can reveal a lot of joy, and yet, tear all the happiness away instantly.And this cycle of happiness and pain repeats itself until you can’t take it anymore.And it always starts with the same feelings of confusion, hesitation and attraction.And women, by nature are completely helpless in such circumstances.The little innocent doe in you (in most cases) braves itself up and walks curiously ahead. He’s a married man, and you know you don’t want to fall, but he’s such an emotional wreck, and the most striking part of it all is, he’s totally in love with you. Now, you warm up to him to shower him with happiness, and the next thing you know, you’re snogging him in hallways of movie theaters and bouncing off walls in your apartment, all in the purpose of making him a happier man! You’re dating a married man, and you want him all for yourself.

Yet, what is it about a married or the so-called 'committed' man that attracts women? Since married men seem to be more experienced and mature, they get attracted towards them.Samvedna Thakur (name changed on request), 27, who works in an advertising agency in Delhi claims, "I have been dating a married man for the last two years. I've tried to break up with him several times but have failed in doing so.I am aware of the consequences if his wife finds out about our relationship.The realization – Being used by a married man When I was involved with a married man, I felt terribly used.I hated myself for doing what I was doing, and yet, I couldn’t help myself. That’s what happens to any woman who’s involved with a married man, because when you’re the “other woman” there are no weekends together, no family parties, no meeting friends, nothing.

Yet, what is it about a married or the so-called 'committed' man that attracts women? Since married men seem to be more experienced and mature, they get attracted towards them.Samvedna Thakur (name changed on request), 27, who works in an advertising agency in Delhi claims, "I have been dating a married man for the last two years. I've tried to break up with him several times but have failed in doing so.I am aware of the consequences if his wife finds out about our relationship.The realization – Being used by a married man When I was involved with a married man, I felt terribly used.I hated myself for doing what I was doing, and yet, I couldn’t help myself. That’s what happens to any woman who’s involved with a married man, because when you’re the “other woman” there are no weekends together, no family parties, no meeting friends, nothing.That one conversation in the office cubicle takes you all the way to the coffee shop, the snack bar, the restaurant, and the movie hall.